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Tributes
to
J. Desmond Clark
1916-2002
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When I went to study Anthropology
at Berkeley in 1993, I was asked which of Berkeley's star-studded
cast of characters I most wanted to meet. My answer was Desmond
Clark. A few weeks into my first semester he gave a brown-bag talk
on the stone axe makers of New Guinea so, dewy-eyed with excitement,
I went to hear my idol speak. After it was over, I plucked up the
courage to introduce myself - a fellow Brit in a foreign land. He
was utterly charming and we became friends. When we discovered that
my mother was a friend of his sister, we became kin. I lost my father
a year ago and feel now that I have lost him again. Desmond was
above all a gentleman and incredibly kind and generous. Even when
he was ill during the last few years, he was always more concerned
for the comfort of his guests. His knowledge was staggering - I
would ask him questions about Egypt, about World War I, about Arthurian
legends, about all manner of topics, and he always had something
to tell me.!
Together we would research things
that he didn't know and he took as much joy in it as I did. He was
kindness itself and I mourn his passing. My loving condolences to
Betty, John and Liz.
-Di Beach
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